Everyday thousands of children are being sexually abused. You can stop the abuse of at least one child by simply praying. You can possibly stop the abuse of thousands of children by forwarding the link in First Time Visitor? by email, Twitter or Facebook to every Christian you know. Save a child or lots of children!!!! Do Something, please!

3:15 PM prayer in brief:
Pray for God to stop 1 child from being molested today.
Pray for God to stop 1 child molestation happening now.
Pray for God to rescue 1 child from sexual slavery.
Pray for God to save 1 girl from genital circumcision.
Pray for God to stop 1 girl from becoming a child-bride.
If you have the faith pray for 100 children rather than one.
Give Thanks. There is more to this prayer here

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Monday, 21 July 2025

Wolves Among the Sheep > Bishop Eamonn Casey's victims thrown under the bus

 

No further investigation into Bishop Eamonn Casey following garda review



There have been multiple allegations of child sexual abuse against the late Bishop but he never faced charges.

GARDAÍ WILL NOT be taking any further investigative actions following a review of the original file on Bishop Eamonn Casey

The review was conducted by the Garda National Protective Services Bureau (GNPSB) at the request of Garda Commissioner Drew Harris in the wake of the documentary ‘Bishop Casey’s Secrets’ last year, in which Casey was described as a sexual predator. 

The programme examined the Catholic Church’s handling of abuse allegations made against Casey, who died in 2017 aged 87. Multiple allegations of child sex abuse were made against Casey.

The programme included an interview with his niece, Patricia Donovan, who claimed he first raped her at the age of five and that the sexual abuse continued for years. 

Casey denied allegations of child sexual abuse made against him during his life, and though complaints were reported to An Garda Síochana, he was never charged with any sexual crimes. 

Is it just me, or does anyone else get the feeling the An Garda Síochana would rather not ever charge anyone with child sex crimes. But, I've only been reading reports on them for 12 years now.

A garda spokesperson today confirmed that following the GNSB review of the original investigation file on Casey, “no further investigative actions have been identified”. 

It comes after the remains of the disgraced Bishop were removed from the Cathedral crypt in Galway and were entrusted to the care of his family. 

The Galway Diocesan Office yesterday said that they would like to thank people for their understanding and patience while the process to decide what action should be carried out was underway. 

“Significant consensus emerged around the unique role of a Cathedral as a place of unity rather than division, healing rather than hurt and peace rather than disquiet,” the office said.

This is a confession that the decision not to prosecute the late Bishop was a political one, not the least to do with evidence or justice. 

The Cathedral was a place of pain and suffering for decades and it's not going to change by pretending the evil didn't happen. 

Healing only begins with truth. His victims were denied such. This is disgraceful! Throwing people under the bus is a hell of a way to start healing.

The documentary on Casey also revealed how a six-figure settlement was paid by the Catholic Church to one complainant after Casey’s death, and that the Vatican had banned Casey from public ministry in 2007 following “allegations”. 



Friday, 31 January 2025

Wolves Among the Sheep > CoE Bishop of Liverpool accused of Sex Assaults; Christian sect convicted of manslaughter of 8y/o diabetic girl

 

Britain's bishop of Liverpool denies allegations

of sexual assault

By Chris Benson
A woman previously accused Reverend Dr. John Perumbalath, the bishop of Liverpool, of groping and kissing her without consent, and another church leader accused him of sexual harassment going as far back as as 2023. "Whilst I don't believe I have done anything wrong, I have taken seriously the lessons learnt through this process addressing how my actions can be perceived by others," he wrote in the statement. Photo Courtesy of Diocese of Liverpool/UPI

Jan. 29 (UPI) -- The bishop of Liverpool has denied a set of sexual assault allegations by two different women including a fellow church leader.

A woman previously accused Reverend Dr. John Perumbalath, the bishop of Liverpool, of groping and kissing her without consent, and another accused Perumbalath of sexual harassment going as far back as 2023.

In a statement to the BBC, Perumbalath said he has since "consistently denied" the allegations, and added that a police investigation led to no further action.

One woman alleged Perumbalath assaulted her in Essex at the diocese of Chelmsford on separate occasions from 2019 to 2023 while he was bishop of Bradwell.

"Whilst I don't believe I have done anything wrong, I have taken seriously the lessons learnt through this process addressing how my actions can be perceived by others," he wrote in the statement.

The Diocese of Liverpool announced in October 2022 that Perumbalath was to be the ninth bishop of Liverpool and was enthroned in 2023 after he arrived from the Diocese of Chelmsford.

A complaint of alleged misconduct was brought against Perumbalath, now 58, in 2023 after he officially assumed his new role, according to the Church of England. The second complaint was lodged shortly after the first.

A female bishop told Britain's Channel 4 News that she too was sexually harassed by Perumbalath.

But the Church of England said "pastoral support" was provided "throughout for the second complainant and is ongoing."

"The allegations set out in this program are in relation to encounters that took place in public settings, with other people present," the bishop of Liverpool stated.

Perumbalath was voluntarily interviewed under caution by police in March of last year. And he noted that he likewise complied with an investigation by the National Safeguarding Team.

However, an NST spokesperson confirmed insufficient evidence was available to file a complaint under the Clergy Discipline Measure.

"The information brought by the second complainant was explored and assessed not to be a safeguarding matter but a matter of alleged misconduct," the Church of England stated.

Perumbalath, from Kerala in southern India, was ordained in 1994 into the Church of North India before being moved to Britain in 2001 to take a role with the Diocese of Rochester.

It follows the recent departure of Justin Welby, 69, as archbishop of Canterbury over Welby's handling of a sexual abuse scandal.

Meanwhile, Welby's temporary replacement as the Church of England's leader, Archbishop of York Stephen Cottrell, has faced similar calls to step-down after allegations he twice-appointed a priest at the center of a sexual abuse case.


Australian Christian sect members convicted in death of diabetic 8-year-old

The Supreme Court of Queensland found 14 members of a religious group guilty in the 2022 killing of an 8-year-old diabetic girl by depriving her of insulin, the one thing that would have kept her alive. The group instead placed their faith in God, believing he would heal her. Photo by Steve Buissinne/Pixabay
The Supreme Court of Queensland found 14 members of a religious group guilty in the 2022 killing of an 8-year-old diabetic girl by depriving her of insulin, the one thing that would have kept her alive. The group instead placed their faith in God, believing he would heal her. Photo by Steve Buissinne/Pixabay

Jan. 29 (UPI) -- A court in Brisbane, Australia, on Wednesday, found 14 members of a religious group guilty of the 2022 killing of an 8-year-old diabetic girl after withholding insulin from her for almost a week.

Elizabeth Struhs' father, Jason Struhs, 53, and Brendan Stevens, 63, the leader of the Saints, which eschews modern medicine in favor of the "healing power of God," were convicted of her manslaughter, along with her mother and brother and eight other members of the group.

Jason Struhs and Stevens were acquitted of murder charges because the prosecution had failed to prove intent beyond a reasonable doubt -- in Jason's case because he was under the "cloistering" influence of the group's beliefs.

Stevens was found not guilty for similar reasons despite the court finding he had persuaded, encouraged and supported Jason to halt Elizabeth's insulin shots.

Mother, Kerrie Struhs, 49, brother, Zachary Struhs, and the 10 others were convicted on grounds they counseled or encouraged Jason Struhs to withdraw insulin therapy.

However, Justice Burns singled out Kerrie Struhs in his written judgment saying the "complete abdication" of her legal responsibilities of care for her daughter "constituted such an egregious departure from the standard of care as to amount to a crime against the state that is deserving of punishment."

While there was no evidence of malice, with Justice Burns saying as he handed down his verdict in Queensland's Supreme Court that it was clear Elizabeth was loved by her parents and all the accused, their actions still led to her death.

"It cannot be doubted that Elizabeth was lovingly cared for in almost every way. However, due to a singular belief in the healing power of God, she was deprived of the one thing that would most definitely have kept her alive," Justice Martin said.

There is nothing wrong with believing in the healing power of God. There are millions of stories of God healing people in miraculous ways. What was wrong here is that "The Saints" believed that God would heal somebody just because they asked. They were so firm in their belief that they bet Elizabeth's life on it. God heals people when it is His will to do so, not when it is our will. The Saints must learn to discern God's will and not demand their will be done.

The testimony of dozens of witnesses called by the prosecution during the six-month non-jury trial depicted a distressing account of the suffering endured by Elizabeth in the days before her death from diabetic ketoacidosis -- a condition in which blood sugar is elevated to deadly levels.

"She was described as speaking little, needing help going to the toilet, and being incontinent," said prosecutor Caroline Marco.

She would also have suffered vomiting, extreme lethargy and loss of consciousness.

As she lay dying at her home in Toowoomba west of Brisbane, the Saints prayed and sang to God to heal her, instead of calling for medical assistance.

Authorities were not notified of Elizabeth's death for 36 hours as the group fully expected she would be brought back to life, in a similar way to Jesus' resurrection.e

They continued to insist she would rise up from the dead in police interviews after being arrested in January 2022.

The court heard Elizabeth was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes requiring daily insulin jabs in 2019 following an incident for which Jason Struhs and wife, Kerrie Struhs were charged after Elizabeth was rushed to the hospital in a diabetic coma weighing just 33 pounds and too weak to walk.

The accused are scheduled to be sentenced in February.

And what was the outcome of those charges in 2019? Was there never any follow-up to check on this girl? Amazing!

From Grok:

In the context of Elizabeth Struhs, "The Saints" refers to a small, fundamentalist Christian sect in Australia. This group is known for its strict adherence to certain religious doctrines, which can include isolation from mainstream society and sometimes extreme practices based on their interpretation of biblical texts.


This particular sect gained notoriety due to events involving Elizabeth Struhs, where their beliefs and practices came under public and legal scrutiny. However, specifics about their theology, structure, or current status might not be widely documented due to their insular nature.

Monday, 12 December 2022

Wolves Among the Sheep > Healing a battered soul; PEI Youth Leader charged with CSA

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My home life growing up was quite dysfunctional; I am the youngest of four, and knew from an early age that my mother never planned for a daughter.

This guest post is from a woman I know who is courageously sharing her story about childhood sexual abuse so that others can find hope, freedom and healing.

My parents were both quite emotionally disconnected from me and looking back, I now see my emotional neediness even as a young child.

My mother was a very heavy drinker and on medication for depression for years. She often threatened to leave when us kids got on her nerves.

My father was explosively angry and prone to rage, and I rarely if ever felt his approval. I was over 30 years old before I heard him say that he loved me.sexual abuse story

NO BOUNDARIES

In addition to all this, there was a complete lack of boundaries in my home. Pornography was prevalent to the point that once my brothers were older, my mother would buy ‘all the men’ a Playboy calendar every year for their Christmas stocking. Crude jokes abounded, and I knew and experienced things at a very young age that I should not have.

It is no surprise, given this environment, that there were innumerable incidents of boundaries being crossed and people acting out inappropriately, to the point of outright sexual abuse. Thankfully the abuse was sporadic and over a relatively short time period – but along with everything else, it was pivotal.

MEETING GOD AT SUMMER CAMP

Despite all the above, my mother believed that knowing about God was important. She sent us all off to Sunday school regularly, and to summer camp at least once.

The summer when I was 9 years old the only camp that she could find to send me to was an Alliance camp, so off I went. I accepted Jesus into my heart at that camp, but I didn’t dare tell anyone. As much as my mom wanted us to learn about God, my parents were NOT okay with any of that ‘born-again’ stuff.

About four years later a friend invited me to a Pentecostal camp, and I really encountered God there. A year or two after that I finally got up enough nerve to start going to the Pentecostal church, but my parents were pretty convinced that I was in a cult. They were so opposed to me getting baptized that I waited until after I had left home to take that step of public declaration.

THE LOSS OF A MOM

My mom had an aneurysm in her brain when I was 14. After spending six months in hospital she returned home but was brain damaged, and although her recovery was quite remarkable in a lot of ways, she ceased functioning emotionally as a wife and mother.

My dad didn’t handle mom’s health issues very well, and their marriage basically disintegrated to one that was in name only. Mom’s drinking escalated to significant proportions, and over this time period she had some serious medical issues, which culminated in her death when I was 19.

About ten months before Mom died, I moved to a small city about 45 minutes from home to take a course at a college, and started attending the local Pentecostal church. Little did I know the pivotal events that would soon transpire.

SEXUAL PREDATOR IN SHEEP’S CLOTHING

There was someone else new in town and to the church – a 35-year-old divorced former pastor who played the guitar and had an amazing voice. The church was very excited to have someone with his talents around. He was handed the high-teen Sunday school class. Over the next 18 months I was groomed and ultimately molested by this charming wolf in shepherd’s clothing.

He could’ve had any woman he wanted, but he was more interested in developing a friendship with me – a naïve 19-year-old girl with a huge, neon ‘needy’ sign on my forehead. I just wanted someone to love me and to make me feel worth something. I was a very easy target.

Two people that I know of complained to the pastor about this man’s behaviour specifically related to me. However, nothing was said or done. He abruptly moved away. I eventually came to refer to this experience as me having been in ‘an inappropriate relationship with a man 17 years older than me’.

I carried a measure of shame and embarrassment over this for 25 years.

Please go to revwords for the rest of this great story of how she recovered and was healed of the effects of child sexual abuse.


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Former church youth leader charged with sexual assault


Warning: This story contains details some may find disturbing

CBC News · 
Posted: Nov 08, 2022 6:28 PM AT | 

Jan Vanderzwaag speaks with CBC News in January during an unrelated interview.
He has pleaded not guilty and elected trial by judge and jury. (CBC)


A former youth leader with a P.E.I. church is facing historical sexual assault charges involving three boys.

Jan Vanderzwaag, 43, was officially charged in May. The case was in Supreme Court in Charlottetown on Tuesday. Vanderzwaag, who also goes by John, did not appear. He has pleaded not guilty to two charges of sexual assault and one of sexual interference. 

CBC News spoke with two of the boys, who are brothers. They are now adults and their names are protected by a publication ban. They say they were molested by Vanderzwaag in 2001. They say they met him through the Christian Reform Church when he was a leader of a group there.

One of them says he was 14 years old when he was assaulted by Vanderzwaag after they were invited to a movie night and sleepover. 

"I proceeded to watch him sexually abuse my little brother and it got to a point where I just couldn't take it anymore and I coughed to get his attention to get him to come back to me and he started to abuse me again."

He said the experience has haunted his family and after all these years it feels good to come forward.

After he made the complaint with RCMP, it was two years before charges were laid. He said it can be harder for men to be believed, but he's determined to be heard. 

He said he plans to seek damages through a civil case, as well.

"Unless this abuse stops, unless there is an acknowledgment that this happened to me, my brothers, to my family. I'm not going to stop until I see justice." 

The church is not named in the case, but said in an email:

"The alleged abuse did not take place at our church, or during a church activity. The accused attended our church but was not in a leadership position. The accused has not attended our church for over 15 years. The RCMP has been investigating this matter already for some time and the church has and continues to fully co-operate. Our church was never under investigation."

Vanderzwaag could not be reached for comment. He has elected trial by judge and jury.

Lawyers will be back in court in January, after which a trial date is expected to be set.

None of the allegations have been proven in court.





Wednesday, 3 July 2019

The Consequences of Child Sexual Abuse on Adult Survivors

If We Don’t End Child Sexual Abuse, 
This Is How It Can Affect A Person’s Adult Life


Shayani Sarkar, YKA

The 1999 World Health Consultation on child sexual abuse stated that “Child sexual abuse is the involvement of a child in sexual activity that he or she does not fully comprehend, is unable to give informed consent to, or for which the child is not developmentally prepared and cannot give consent, or that violates the laws or social taboos of society. Child sexual abuse is evidenced by this activity between a child and an adult or another child who by age or development is in a relationship of responsibility, trust or power, the activity being intended to gratify or satisfy the needs of the other person. This may include but is not limited to: — the inducement or coercion of a child to engage in any unlawful sexual activity; — the exploitative use of a child in prostitution or other unlawful sexual practices; — the exploitative use of children in pornographic performance and materials.”

Victims of sex crimes often develop behavioral problems, tendencies towards physical aggression, non-compliance, and/or self-destructive behavior which might lead to delinquency. Running away, vandalism, and even going into sex work (without any real understanding of it) are common outcomes too. Further evidence suggests that adult survivors are twice as likely to be arrested for crimes like violent abuse than the their non-abused counterparts.

What The Numbers Show

Children who experience child sexual abuse are nine times more likely to commit crimes than non-victims, research finds. And 50-70% of all women and a substantial number of men treated in psychiatric settings have histories of sexual or physical abuse or both (Carmen et al, 1984; Bryer et al., 1987; Craine et al., 1988).

Over 95% of perpetrators who sexually abuse female children and over 80% of those who abuse male children, are men. Most of these men went through childhood abuse themselves (Fergusson & Mullen, 1999). Numerous-studies have documented that the most violent criminals were physically or sexually abused as children (Groth, 1979; Seghorn et al, 1987).

A study of convicted killers reports 83.8% suffered severe physical and emotional abuse and 32.2% were sexually violated as children (Blake, 1995). Many survivors of child sexual abuse are counted among the orphaned, abandoned, and the destitute. They are counted among children of those compelled to do sex work. They are counted among migrants and refugees too.

Victims of child sexual abuse often face psychotic disorders, drug and alcohol dependency, or depression. They also suffer from post-traumatic symptoms which may turn into often criminal behaviours, as well as substance abuse, attempt to suicide, and aggression, among other things. Research shows that male survivors face the same symptoms as female survivors but act out in different ways. Where boys prefer to act out the trauma, girls tend to show symptoms of self-destructiveness and rage.

Abuse And Victimization

Research has shown that women with a history of child sexual abuse are more likely to experience trauma and victimization in adulthood. Many will suffer from sexual victimization as they tend to acquire a greater number of sexual partners.

A Cause For Female Delinquency

Survivors have a tendency to run away from home, particularly females. By running away, a girl may take to various kinds of deliquency, like stealing, and even snap decisions about going into sex work, which can lead to arrest and incarceration. Research suggests that at least half of all female delinquents have been sexually abused in childhood.

A Highway To Substance Abuse And Violent Crime

Victims of child abuse often become drug abusers. Research has shown that children who have experienced sexual assault, often fall prey to cigarettes, alcohol, or drugs to vent out their frustration. They show a greater probability–compared to non-abused children—to use intravenous drugs later in life.

A Way Forward

Children survivors of sexual assault often suffer from symptoms of physical aggression and may get arrested for committing crimes which are violent in nature.

They must also deal with feelings of shame and self-blame, and, as a result, they are hesitant to speak out about it, they do not receive counseling and are never able to recover from it .

It is important that child sexual abuse is recognized as a serious ailment in our society. It is important that various non-governmental organizations begin conducting various outreach programs in schools so that children know that child sexual abuse is a crime. 

It is important that all the states develop a National Child Traumatic Stress Network which will provide services for children who are traumatized by child sexual abuse so that they can heal and can reconcile back to the community. It is important that therapy is made available for survivors of child sexual abuse.

Each of these interventions destroys the internalized negative messages in the minds of the survivors, guardians and society at large.

As a part of the healing process victims of child sexual abuse, abused children should be introduced to the art of Writing Therapy. This kind of intervention helps them to vent out their frustrations through writing.

We have also seen on this blog that CSA often results in a child abandoning their education - see 11th story on link - "Indian survivors of sexual abuse drop out of school due to social stigma and finances, says study In Focus".

Also read: Project Baalrakshak: An Endeavour To Eradicate Child Sexual Abuse
References

Jeremy Travis, 1995,”Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse later criminal consequences by national institute of justice”, National Institute of Justice.

Joseph H Beitchman, Kenneth J Zucker, 1992, “A review of the long term effects of child sexual abuse”, Child Abuse and Neglect, Volume 16, Issue 1 .

Judith Cashmore , Rita Shackel, 2013 “The long term effect of child sexual abuse”. Child Family Community Australia, (CFCA) Paper no 11.

Kathleen Kendall Tackett, 2011, “The Long Shadow Adult Survivors of Childhood Abuse”, “The hidden feelings of motherhood coping with mothering stress, depression and burnout”.

Anna Foundation, 2001, “What can happen to abused children when they grow up if no one notices, listens or helps?”

World Health Organization, 2007, “The cycles of violence, The relationship between childhood maltreatment and the risk of later becoming a perpetrator of violence”.