Everyday thousands of children are being sexually abused. You can stop the abuse of at least one child by simply praying. You can possibly stop the abuse of thousands of children by forwarding the link in First Time Visitor? by email, Twitter or Facebook to every Christian you know. Save a child or lots of children!!!! Do Something, please!

3:15 PM prayer in brief:
Pray for God to stop 1 child from being molested today.
Pray for God to stop 1 child molestation happening now.
Pray for God to rescue 1 child from sexual slavery.
Pray for God to save 1 girl from genital circumcision.
Pray for God to stop 1 girl from becoming a child-bride.
If you have the faith pray for 100 children rather than one.
Give Thanks. There is more to this prayer here

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Wednesday, 1 September 2021

Today's Global Pervs and Paedos List > Headteacher's License Gone Forever; One Survivor's Awful Story; 1st Nations Teachers Murder-Suicide; Tas Police Inquiry Causes Anger; Dirty Old Man Dies in Prison

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Paedophile headteacher Daniel Chapman at 'risk of repeat' offending


By Ellis Whitehouse, Senior Reporter, Echo
29th Aug

Paedophile - Daniel Chapman, who has since changed his name to Alexander Martin, was jailed for 2.5 years

A PAEDOPHILE headteacher is at “risk of repeat” offending and could put pupils at risk, a teaching tribunal has found.

Daniel Chapman, now known as Alexander Martin, has been banned from teaching for life following his imprisonment for having child abuse images on his computers.

Chapman was the former headteacher of Hilltop Infants School in Wickford.

The 33-year-old was found to have dozens of indecent images of children when police raided his home in Meadgate Avenue, Chelmsford, including several in category A, the most serious kind.

He was jailed for two and a half years in November 2019, and the Teaching Regulation Agency has barred him from the profession for life.

Now, the full report of the tribunal has revealed the panel were deeply concerned that Chapman may offend again.

The report said: “Mr Martin appeared to be remorseful and there was some evidence that he was ashamed of his actions, there was no clear evidence of insight in this case.

“There was no clear evidence of insight. It was apparent that Mr Martin (Chapman) did not plead guilty at the first available opportunity and appeared to still contest aspects of the charges against him.”

Decision maker John Knowles said: “The panel found that Mr Martin’s ‘actions were deliberate, his actions involved harm and abuse to children and undoubtedly had a detrimental impact on the school, its pupils and the local community’.

“In my judgement, the lack of insight means that there is some risk of repetition of this behaviour and this puts pupils at risk.”

Det Con Nick Riley, from Essex Police, said at the time of the investigation that Chapman had been using messenger apps to send and receive images of child abuse and also exchange messages.

The panel added: “While no doubt had been cast upon his abilities as an educator and there was evidence he was very well regarded, given the nature of the allegations, in this case the panel concluded that there was not a strong public interest consideration in retaining him in the profession.”

Chapman has also been barred from applying to have his teaching licence restored.

Good! It shouldn't have even been questioned.




Teacher killed in Sask. murder-suicide was leaving

abusive husband, family says


Charlene Graham's family says she was shot and killed by her estranged husband


Bonnie Allen · CBC News · 
Posted: Sep 01, 2021 6:00 AM CT 


Charlene Graham, 34, was shot by her estranged husband before he turned the gun on himself Monday afternoon in a Meadow Lake, Sask. campground, according to her family. She was a teacher and mother of two who loved to sing karaoke. (Charlene Graham/Facebook)

Warning: This story contains disturbing details

Della Duquette will never forget her younger sister's dying words: "Go! Sis, it's OK, I'm going to die."

It was an order for Duquette to run for her life, she said, as her sister's estranged husband pointed a rifle at them Monday afternoon in a campground in Meadow Lake, Sask.

"He shot her right in front of me," Duquette said. "I heard her words telling me to go, so I ran, hoping he wouldn't shoot me in the back." 

Duqette's sister, Charlene Graham, a 34-year-old teacher and mother of two from the nearby Flying Dust First Nation, died outside a camper-trailer in the small city of just over 5,000, about 300 kilometres northwest of Saskatoon. 

Charlene's estranged husband, Delane Graham, 34, from Thunderchild First Nation, south of Meadow Lake, had been living in the campground since the couple split about a month ago. He was found dead inside the same camper-trailer, in what RCMP have described as a homicide-suicide.

In a news release Tuesday, Meadow Lake RCMP described the scene as a domestic incident, saying a 34-year-old man took his own life. They said a 34-year-old woman was found dead outside a camper-trailer when police arrived. A third person, a woman, received minor injuries.

Duquette had rushed to the campground that day to try to save her sister's life. Charlene's family says she was trying to leave an abusive relationship. It's a period of time that is well-documented as being the highest risk for domestic homicide.

They say they are sharing their family's tragic story to drive home that domestic violence can often turn deadly — and that no one should assume it won't. 

'She lost her light'


Charlene and Delane started dating right out of high school. Later, they both graduated with teaching degrees and started a family. They had two children.

Charlene's older sister, Roxanne Aubichon, and her mother, Mary Morin, said Delane began to isolate Charlene from her family, control her movements and manipulate her emotionally.

This is often a sign of drug use, even just marijuana can result in paranoia or schizophrenia.

"She was always so vibrant and happy and healthy. When he started abusing her, she just wasn't the same anymore. She lost her light," said Aubichon.

The family says Charlene had tried to leave Delane several times over their 16 years together but would always be pulled back to him.

The couple separated about a month ago. Charlene stayed in her house on Flying Dust First Nation, her home community, and Delane moved into a camper in Meadow Lake campground.

When Charlene started dating someone, her sister predicted trouble.

"She looked so happy. And then I looked at my husband and I said, 'You know, Delane will never let her be happy. He's obsessed with her. He's crazy.... I just had a bad feeling," Aubichon said.

A call for help

Della Duquette visited her sister Sunday. Charlene told her that Delane was using cocaine and crystal meth and threatening to shoot her and her family if she truly left him.

"She said, 'Sister, if I ever don't answer my phone ... please come find me because he has me,'" Duquette recalls Charlene telling her.

As a teacher, Delane Graham was widely recognized for his work in land-based education and Cree culture. His estranged wife's family said he was controlling and jealous at home. (Delane Graham/Facebook)


The next day, Charlene started a new job at the on-reserve elementary school. She came to work that morning, but when her family couldn't reach her or find her after lunch they began to panic. Her mother called the RCMP and told police: "I fear for my daughter's life right now."

Meadow Lake RCMP confirmed they received a request around 2:10 p.m. CST for a wellness check. RCMP said officers were making inquiries related to this request when the gunshot reports came in at 2:44 p.m. CST.

Duquette wasn't satisfied with the police's plan to check Charlene's house and school, so she rushed over to the campground to search for her sister herself. The family can only speculate that Delane used force or threats to get Charlene to the campground that day.

A sister dies, another escapes

When Duquette arrived, at first she believed Delane was punching her sister so she tackled him and held him on the ground, she said. That's when she discovered he had a knife and had been stabbing Charlene.

"I was yelling for help and there are so many campers around and I'm like, 'Why isn't anyone coming to help?' Maybe she could have survived from the stab wounds."

Then, she said, Delane stabbed her in the hand and she released him. 

"Then I went back to [Charlene], and I said, 'Sister, are you okay?'"

That's when Charlene ordered her to "Go!"

At that point, Duquette said, Delane came toward them with a gun and shot her sister.

"I just wanted to go hold her, and he looked at me and pointed that gun at me and shook his head. He said, 'Get the f--- out of here,'" she said.

'There's a way out'

Charlene's family says they weren't able to save her life, but hope sharing her story will save others. They will remember her as a smart, funny woman who loved to sing karaoke and always put others first.

Charlene Graham started a new teaching job at an elementary school on the day she was killed.
(Charlene Graham/Facebook)


"This is reality. It happens to a lot of women," said Charlene's mother. "We want to help other women to recognize the signs of an abusive relationship."

Charlene's sister, Roxanne Aubichon, believes her sister could have been helped by her family, police, and community agencies if she had reached out to them — just as Aubichon did when she left an abusive marriage — but she understands how daunting it can be for women who are broken or beaten down to ask for help.

"Your family loves you and your family wants to help you if you are stuck in a situation. There's a way out," she said. 

If you need help and are in immediate danger, call 911. To find assistance in your area click here.

There is always a way out but you most likely will need help and a plan. There are resources listed to the right of this post. Police and social services should know who to contact locally if you need to get out in a hurry. 




Alleged victim of Launceston paedophile nurse James Griffin

criticises Tasmanian police investigation review

By Emily Baker, ABC
Posted 18h ago18 hours ago

Keelie McMahon says if police had acted sooner, a decade of abuse could have been stopped.
(ABC News: Jessica Moran)


A woman allegedly sexually abused by a paedophile nurse says she is "unbelievably angry" police officers investigated over their handling of the matter have not faced serious disciplinary action.

Tasmania Police apologised to sexual assault survivors in February after revealing the force was tipped off about Launceston man James Geoffrey Griffin in 2009, 2011, 2013 and 2015.

He worked in the children's ward of the Launceston General Hospital until he was finally charged in 2019, but took his own life before facing court.

A professional standards investigation into police officers' handling of the notifications has now ended, with three officers disciplined.

One received counselling, another was "reprimanded" and a third was placed in ongoing professional development.

Tasmania Police declined to provide any further details.

Keelie McMahon alleges she was abused by Griffin (5th story on link) in 2011 and 2012 when she was 14.

"It has made me so unbelievably angry that they're treating it as if they've just put a file into the wrong spot," Ms McMahon said.

"If they had done their job properly in 2009, 10 years' worth of abuse towards multiple children and women would have been stopped … they should have lost their jobs."

Abuse reports 'not taken seriously': Greens


The broader review into Tasmania Police's handling of the Griffin matter found issues with how police handled what are known as information reports — tips from third parties, like child protection services.

Mr Griffin was only charged after an alleged survivor contacted police directly.

Ms McMahon went to police in the same year in support of the woman.

"I know that the likelihood of people taking one person seriously is very slim," she said.

Greens justice spokeswoman Rosalie Woodruff asked Police Minister Jacquie Petrusma about the disciplinary actions in Parliament.

"Clearly there's been a culture in at least parts of Tasmania Police where victims or witnesses reporting sexual abuse have not been taken seriously," she said.

"Survivors of sexual abuse need to be assured they will be listened to and believed when they come forward."

Police acknowledge difficulty for victims in coming forward


The Police Minister declined to provide further detail about the professional standards investigation, but said Tasmania Police was committed to improving processes for people reporting child sexual abuse.

"It is already implementing recommendations from the Griffin management review," Ms Petrusma said.

"These recommendations include developing protocols for the information exchange between [the police department] and the Department of Justice for working with vulnerable children checks, also developing Tasmania Police initial investigation notification of child sexual abuse guidelines, and reviewing the memorandum of understanding between Child and Family Services and Tasmania Police."

Ms McMahon said it was crucial the changes were effective and long term.

"I really hope for future generations' sake they're doing something that means claims like this are taken seriously, but I'm also scared that they've also got a history of not taking it seriously," she said.

Ms Petrusma said Tasmania Police had released more details of the internal investigation to the state's ongoing royal commission into child sex abuse.

In a statement, Tasmania Police Deputy Commissioner Donna Adams said the Griffin Outcomes Report "identified deficiencies in the way we draw together information across agencies, particularly in relation to third party reports where the victim is not identified".

Deputy Commissioner Adams said police "understand and acknowledge that it is often a very difficult decision" for victims of sexual assault to come forward, for "many reasons".

She urged anyone who is a victim of any type of sexual assault to "report to police so that the matter can be investigated, the offender held to account for their actions and brought to justice".




Paedophile pensioner who claimed victims 'enjoyed' abuse

found dead in prison cell


Michael Taylor, who assaulted five boys and girls over a six-month period after enticing

them to play with sweets and money, was discovered at HMP Glenochil last month


By Jonathan Coles Reporter
11:07, 1 Sep 2021

A paedophile pensioner who claimed the children he abused "enjoyed it" has died in prison just five months after being sentenced.


Michael Taylor, 71, assaulted five boys and girls over a six-month period after enticing them to play with sweets and money.

The predator, of Aberdeen, filmed his rape of a young boy and instructed another victim to video him abusing a girl, a court heard.

Army veteran Taylor was eventually arrested after a youngster told his father that he had put his hands under his clothes.

The boy said his attacker told him not to tell his parents and had previously given him money for sweets.



Taylor was then arrested and admitted five offences of sexual assault against children aged between six and 11 which took place last year.

He also pleaded guilty to a further charge of taking indecent photographs of children at the High Court in Edinburgh.

During his hearing, the prosecution said Taylor claimed his victims had "liked" and "enjoyed" the abuse (5th story on link).

The first offender was jailed for eight years and placed on the sex offenders' register indefinitely in March. But it has now emerged he was found dead inside HMP Glenochil last month after serving five months of his sentence.

The cause of death is unknown but a fatal accident inquiry will be held because he died in legal custody.

During their investigation, police recovered a number of devices from Taylor's home and an examination of his phone revealed twisted images and videos of children.

It was discovered he had made searches for boys in skirts, boys in dresses and gay young boys.

When questioned by police he claimed he had become 'over friendly' with two of his five victims and that it had turned sexual.

Jailing Taylor, judge Lady Scott said: "The effect of your conduct on these children and their families has been profound.

"I am satisfied you present a serious risk of harm to children."

Not any more.






Wednesday, 7 September 2016

5 Things to Know About the Murder-Suicide of Gay Pedophile Couple

BY ADAM CARLSON, People

The apparent murder-suicide of a Minnesota elementary school teacher and his husband last week now seems to have masked a darker truth: Police say the couple, teacher Aric Babbitt and Matthew Deyo, are being investigated after multiple teenagers accused them of sexual abuse.



Here are five things you need to know about the case: 

1. The Couple Knew They Were Being Investigated

Babbitt, 40, and Deyo, 36, knew that police were investigating their alleged sexual abuse of at least one teenage boy, according to court documents obtained by PEOPLE.

The accusations first came to light on Aug. 14, when an underage boy and his parents went to South St. Paul, Minnesota, police and told them the boy had an "ongoing sexual relationship" with both Babbitt and Deyo, according to search warrants and supporting affidavits obtained by PEOPLE.

Two days later, on Aug. 16, police searched the couple's home and "explained the nature of the investigation" to the couple, according to the court documents. Neither Babbitt nor Deyo agreed to give a statement, according to the documents.

They were never heard from again, according to court documents. A week later – on Aug. 25 – they were reportedly found dead on Lopez Island in Washington state after telling a relative they were going camping and asked to borrow his gun, according to the documents.


2. The Couple Left a Suicide Note

Babbitt and Deyo were found by passing kayakers not long after they died, in a common use area on Lopez Island, San Juan County Undersheriff Brent Johnson tells PEOPLE. He says that Deyo shot Babbitt before killing himself, as "agreed upon."

Johnson also says the couple left an "in-depth" suicide note at the scene and sent a similar one back to their families in the mail.

"It was very clear that it was a suicide note and they mention a number of different topics in the note," Johnson says.

He says the couple had previously been to Lopez Island – a recreation and vacation spot for many – and decided to return specifically for the murder-suicide.


3. The Couple Is Accused of Abusing Multiple Teenagers

Both Babbitt and Deyo allegedly sexually abused multiple teenagers, according to the court documents obtained by PEOPLE. The documents detail repeating cycles of abuse in which the couple would allegedly ply their victims with alcohol and marijuana – as well as stronger drugs, their victims suspect – before raping and molesting them.

What's more, "In interviews with ... victims, Babbitt and Deyo would expose the teens to porn, give them access to porn subscriptions, and encourage them to communicate with them without their [parents'] knowledge, on social media," police allege, according to the documents.

The couple would also give their victims gifts, according to the documents: In one instance they gave an underage boy, who was also gay, some underwear and yoga shorts, with Babbitt telling the teen's concerned mom that it was a "gay thing" and he was helping.

The men also allegedly took naked photographs of at least one victim and police suspect they had installed a secret camera in their bathroom in order to record more teens, according to the documents.

Deyo, who said he was training to be a chiropractor, allegedly used that as a pretense on multiple occasions, according to the documents: He would allegedly get his victims naked for massages or to crack their backs, and then he would assault them.

It's unclear from the court documents how many victims have now come forward, and St. Paul, Minnesota, police declined to comment to PEOPLE – except to confirm that police were actively investigating Babbitt and Deyo, though police declined to say for what.

South St. Paul Public Schools, where Babbitt had taught for years as an elementary school teacher, confirmed they are also investigating, officials tell PEOPLE.

"As soon as the allegations came to our attention, we immediately put Mr. Babbitt on administrative leave and began an internal investigation," Superintendent Dave Webb tells PEOPLE in a statement.

The allegations against the couple appear to have been precipitated by one of their teenage male victims, who had a "breakdown and told his parents what was happening," according to the court documents.

The teen's female best friend was also a victim and frequent witness to the couple's alleged abuse, according to the documents, and had gone on multiple excursions with the men along with her friend.

The boy's older brother "became upset" at these revelations of abuse because his best friend had previously told him about also being abused at Babbitt and Deyo's home – which the brother had promised to keep secret – according to the documents.


4. Babbitt Was a Beloved Teacher and 'Father Figure'

Babbitt has been described as an "ideal" and "devoted" teacher, according to the Pioneer Press.

This just shows what lousy judges of character we are. It's political correctness gone wild when a gay pedophile is described as an 'ideal teacher' and 'father figure'.

Babbitt was raised in South St. Paul and had worked in the school system since 2002, most recently at Lincoln Elementary School. His father, Dana, is a retired principal in the area and former South St. Paul school superintendent, according to multiple reports.

Such cachet seems to have had an edge, as Babbitt's victims with Deyo repeatedly described viewing Babbitt as a "mentor" and "father figure," according to court documents – including one victim who said Babbitt mentored him after he came out as gay to his family.

The victims also describe their parents as friends with the couple, making the victims feel comfortable spending time in the couple's home or on trips with them, according to the documents.

One longtime resident called the town "heartbroken," according to the Press: "I can't even think of anything that's even close ... or anybody who would have even been accused of such a thing," she said. "It's such a terrible, terrible tragedy."

Less is known about Deyo, according to the Press, which reports that he was not as active on social media and did not have such a public-facing job.


5. The Couple's Families Have Spoken Out

The families of Babbitt and Deyo have released a joint statement to PEOPLE, saying they are "devastated by the pain and suffering" the couple caused.

"Our families want to express the sincere grief and sadness we are feeling for the innocent people affected by the actions of Aric Babbitt and Matthew Deyo," the families said in their statement. "We are devastated by the pain and suffering they have caused, and we pray for the healing of those families involved."

How heart-breaking for their parents. Please pray for them.

Deyo's father, Richard, tells PEOPLE that he doesn't want any further attention called to their families – that this should be about the victims.

Babbitt's sister, Sara, seemed to confirm the couple's suicide note in a text message last week, later forwarded to the Press.

"There was an investigation that was going on, and they felt like they didn't have an out and ending their lives was best for them," she reportedly wrote Friday. "We received a letter from them in the mail yesterday. We are all devastated and in a lot of pain." 

Wednesday, 31 August 2016

4 Mid-west Men Including Dead Gay Couple on Today's P&P List

Deceased Minnesota gay couple investigated for child sexual abuse

A South St. Paul teacher and his husband who were being investigated for sexually abusing a former student were found dead in Washington of an apparent murder-suicide.

SOUTH ST. PAUL, Minn. (KMSP) - South St. Paul police are investigating a grade school teacher and his husband for what appears to be child sexual abuse.

The victim in the case just sixteen years old --- and knew the suspect as his former teacher and trusted mentor.  But, the suspects in the case can't be questioned; they were found dead in another state last Thursday.

The victim says he knew one of the suspects since grade school -- and when the teen told his family he was gay.... That former teacher – 40-year-old Aric Babbitt - agreed to mentor the teen.  But that trust was clearly destroyed when the victim says the abuse began.

Apparently they had different views on the term 'mentoring'.


Deceased South St. Paul teacher, spouse investigated for child sexual abuse

Babbitt has been a teacher in the South St. Paul school district since 2002. He had most recently been teaching 4th grade at Lincoln Center Elementary School. Now, there are allegations that Babbitt and his husband, Matthew Deyo, sexually abused a 16-year-old boy who was a former student of Babbitt's.

The teen took his case to police. But -- one day after South St. Paul police executed a search warrant on the couple's home ---- the two were found dead on Lopez Island, north of Seattle, Wash. It was an apparent murder-suicide – with a note left behind.


All of this has been a lot to take in by neighbors in South St. Paul, who say the couple was very friendly.

“They would be in their backyard playing with their dogs or whatever; I'd be in the backyard grilling. You know I’d wave to them, say hi how you doing and sometimes we'd talk more from that, you know, and ask about each other's families,” Gerren Bond, one of Babbit and Deyo’s neighbors, said.

The search warrant shows the 16-year-old and his parents went to the police station to report the abuse earlier this month and also turned over nude photos the couple took of the teen. The alleged victim reports numerous occasions where Babbitt and Deyo gave him and a friend marijuana and alcohol to the point where they passed out, only to wake up with one or both of them having sex with them.

The South St. Paul school district put Babbitt on paid leave on Aug. 17, when they learned of the allegations.  The district is also conducting its own investigation, while at the same time dealing with the grief.

“We welcomed new staff back, as well as veteran staff as well, and we brought in grief counselors to start that day yesterday, and spent the day here with us. We'll be doing the same as students return the day after Labor Day,” South St. Paul Public Schools superintendent Dave Webb said.

The application for the search warrant shows police were also looking for child pornography. Several computers, tablets and hard drives were confiscated, as well as a clock radio with a hidden camera that was taken from the bathroom of the home.


Despite the fact the couple is deceased, both police and the school district say their investigations into the child sexual abuse will continue. 

    South St Paul, MN




Michigan man sentenced in child sex abuse case
By Aaron Dimick

 JACKSON, Mich. (WLNS) — A man convicted of sexually abusing children learned his fate Wednesday in Jackson County Court.

38-year-old Shane Westbrook of Parma was sentenced to 25-50 years in prison.


Tara Sassenger spoke at the sentencing for Westbrook, saying he ruined her life.

“He ruined my childhood. He ruined my self-worth and my self-respect,” Sassenger said.

She’s one of three victims Westbrook is convicted of sexually abusing when they were young girls between 1999 and 2005.

Sassenger says Westbrook put her through immense torture.

“He would tell me that no one would ever believe me. And when I did try to talk about it, no one would believe a child over an adult,” Sassenger said.

Last year, Westbrook was charged with nine counts of criminal sexual conduct.

“I know I am innocent of what’s been charged against me,” Westbrook said in court.

But a jury didn’t think so and found him guilty last month.

“I am going to sentence you to 25-50 years in prison,” said Judge John McBain.

After coming forward to tell her story, Sassenger spoke with 6 News and says she’s happy with the sentence.

“I’m glad he’s getting what he deserves, and he’s going to spend at least the next 25 years back there,” Sassenger said. “I don’t think he feels anything. I think it was all a show. He had zero remorse for me or anyone else.”

During her victim impact statement, Sassenger repeatedly called Westbrook a monster.

And says she’s still dealing with this trauma as an adult.

“Monster is being nice,” Sassenger said.


As court adjourned, Westbrook’s attorney told the judge that they plan on appealing this sentence.




Iowa man sent to prison in child sex abuse case

CLEAR LAKE | A Clear Lake man was sentenced to up to 10 years in prison Tuesday for a felony conviction of lascivious acts with a child.

Amando Montealvo, 58, originally charged with two counts of second-degree sexual abuse, was accused of abusing two girls under age 12 in Clear Lake 10 to 14 years ago.

One of the counts was reduced to lascivious acts with a child. He agreed to enter an Alford plea to that charge in Cerro Gordo County District Court.

In an Alford plea a defendant doesn’t admit to the crime but acknowledges prosecutors could likely prove the charge.

After he is released from prison, Montealvo will be under the supervision of the Department of Corrections for the rest of his life with the possibility of parole. He also must register as a sex offender.

A $1,000 fine was suspended.

-- Mary Pieper

    Cerro Gordo, Iowa