Everyday thousands of children are being sexually abused. You can stop the abuse of at least one child by simply praying. You can possibly stop the abuse of thousands of children by forwarding the link in First Time Visitor? by email, Twitter or Facebook to every Christian you know. Save a child or lots of children!!!! Do Something, please!

3:15 PM prayer in brief:
Pray for God to stop 1 child from being molested today.
Pray for God to stop 1 child molestation happening now.
Pray for God to rescue 1 child from sexual slavery.
Pray for God to save 1 girl from genital circumcision.
Pray for God to stop 1 girl from becoming a child-bride.
If you have the faith pray for 100 children rather than one.
Give Thanks. There is more to this prayer here

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Showing posts with label tweens teens. Show all posts
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Wednesday, 30 November 2016

Children's Sex Texts Should be Monitored by Tech Firms, says Health Secretary

British way ahead of the rest of the world in
fighting online child sex abuse

They have the technology! Why aren't tech companies using it to protect children from predators? Why is it they never actually do anything to protect children until they are threatened by the government? And why is the British government the only one interested in protecting children from online pedophiles and extortionists?

   © Lucas Jackson / Reuters

Social media companies should use snooping software to stop children from sending sexually explicit images, Health Secretary Jeremy Hunt has said.

Speaking to the House of Commons Health Committee, the minister said social media firms should introduce a program which detects cyberbullying among under-18s and acts to prevent it.

Hunt said a culture of online abuse and sexual imagery was having a negative impact on the mental health of young people and urged tech firms to take action.

“I think social media companies need to step up to the plate and show us how they can be the solution to the issue of mental ill health amongst teenagers, and not the cause of the problem,” he said.

“There is a lot of evidence that the technology industry, if they put their mind to it, can do really smart things.

“For example, I just ask myself the simple question as to why it is that you can’t prevent the texting of sexually explicit images by people under the age of 18, if that’s a lock that parents choose to put on a mobile phone contract. Because there is technology that can identify sexually explicit pictures and prevent it being transmitted.”

The health secretary said he wanted to know why companies can’t identify cyberbullying through “word pattern recognition” while it happens online.

“I think there are a lot of things where social media companies could put options in their software that could reduce the risks associated with social media, and I do think that is something which they should actively pursue in a way that hasn’t happened to date.”

Cyberbullying has become an endemic problem in the UK and is not limited to young people.

Earlier this year Labour MP Jess Phillips received 600 rape threats the night after launching a campaign to end sexist cyberbullying.

The number of ‘sextortion’ cases, where victims are persuaded to commit sexual acts on a webcam and then blackmailed, has doubled in a year, according to the National Crime Agency (NCA).

Organized gangs, made up of actors in studios and money launderers, run the ‘sextortion’ operations. They are based all around the world and often target young British men by luring them into potentially-compromising positions.

Victims are befriended online by people using fake identities, and persuaded to perform sexual acts in front of a webcam. They are then threatened that the images will be made public if they don’t pay up.

The NCA says police have had 864 reports of webcam blackmail in 2016, but it says the number is probably higher as many victims are too embarrassed to come forward.

The highest proportion of victims is aged between 21 and 30 years. Some are as young as 11.

‘Sextortion’ has been linked to at least four suicides in the past year, the NCA says.

Ronan Hughes, 17, of County Tyrone, Northern Ireland, took his own life in June 2015 after being subjected to a “relentless” campaign of bullying by a Nigerian gang.

He was duped into posting intimate photos online after receiving pictures of a girl and then blackmailed for £3,000 (US$3,731) by criminals who threatened to upload the images to the Facebook pages of his friends.

In October, police investigating the webcam blackmail linked to Hughes’ death charged a man in Romania and he was remanded in custody.

Other victims of ‘sextortion’ have spoken out. ‘Gary,’ who is from Hampshire and in his teens, had been speaking to a woman online for some time, according to the Mirror. She suggested persistently that they move the conversation onto Skype and asked for his Facebook profile and picture.

“She was halfway across the room. It lasted for around 30 to 45 minutes, all on the phone. She said ‘show me a bit more, show me your face.’

“Then the messages came up: ‘pay £500 or this is going all over Facebook – I want £500.’ Then she started listing my friends’ details. I said I could not afford £500, she said £200 was the lowest. I said I could only pay £50.

“I offered to go to the bank, but went to the police station instead. I was trembling throughout the whole thing, shaking and thinking, ‘What’s going to happen?’”

Another victim, John, who is in his 60s and from Hertfordshire, took to online dating after splitting from his wife. He eventually met a woman on a Filipino site that a friend had recommended to him.

The woman suggested they speak on Skype. When they did, she suggested if he removed some of his clothes she would do the same.

“I’d had a few glasses of wine so maybe my inhibitions had dropped a bit and I agreed. Straight away after that, the threat began.

“They said ‘Now I’ve recorded you. If you don’t pay me, I’ll put that video all over Facebook and YouTube.’”

Roy Sinclair, from the NCA, says the crime of ‘sextortion’ is new, so the NCA and police are working with the Home Office to get a more accurate picture of its true scale.

“However, the trend is clear. Cases of webcam blackmail – or sextortion – are going up dramatically.

“As recently as 2012 we were only getting a handful of reports a year, now we’re getting hundreds, and our law enforcement partners across Europe are reporting a similar picture.”

Authorities have released a new awareness campaign“in response to a really worrying emerging threat in terms of what we call sextortion.”

Is there such an awareness campaign being launched anywhere else in the world? Not likely!

The NCA’s advice to any potential target is: “Do not panic, do not pay, do not communicate and preserve evidence.”

Wednesday, 5 October 2016

'Think About the Future': Kids Beginning to Face up to the Dangers of Sexting

Students learn to handle pressure to send nude photos that can have devastating consequences
By Ioanna Roumeliotis, CBC News 

Grade 4 students at Bluenose Academy in Lunenburg, N.S., are learning how to stay safe online, and educators are explaining the dangers of sexting. In nearby Bridgewater, six teenage boys are scheduled to appear in court Wednesday on child pornography charges.
Grade 4 students at Bluenose Academy in Lunenburg, N.S., are learning how to stay safe online, and educators are explaining the dangers of sexting. In nearby Bridgewater, six teenage boys are scheduled to appear in court Wednesday on child pornography charges. (CBC)

In a world where sexting — digital flirting  — can create devastating personal and and legal problems, Grade 4 students in Nova Scotia are learning how to stay safe online.

Like many teachers and school boards across Canada, educators at Bluenose Academy in Lunenburg are making online safety a priority.

Eva Purcell-MacIntyre, 14, an older student there, says it's a good idea. She's had many requests for nude images from boys in her community, and she's turned down every one.

'If you are under peer pressure,
take yourself away from that peer pressure.'
- Eva Purcell-MacIntyre, 14

"You definitely have to think about the future, and you have to think about the situation. If you are under peer pressure, take yourself away from that peer pressure. Assess and make sure you know the full consequences of what can happen if you sext," she says.

    Feeling pressure to sext 0:35

Smart girl. She seems to know that anyone who would pressure you into doing something you are uncomfortable with, especially something that could result in building walls between you and your parents, is not worth doing it for, no matter what it is. 

Whether she knows it or not, boys will say anything to get you to do what they want you to do. And very few of them, if any, care a hoot about what happens to you in the long term, they are interested in short-term gratification and they know how vulnerable girls are in their tweens and early teens. 

One of the unfortunate outcomes of sexting is the reinforcement of the culture of rape in North American society. It says girls are for the entertainment of boys, and boys couldn't possibly care less about the consequences to the girls.

Concern about the dangers young people can encounter while sexting is growing. Some of it focuses on the nearby community of Bridgewater, where six teenage boys are facing child pornography charges as well as charges of sharing intimate images without consent.

They were arrested after pictures of more than 20 teenage girls were allegedly shared in a Dropbox account without the girls' knowledge.

Lawyers for the boys and the prosecution appeared in court Wednesday and requested more time to review evidence and prepare. The case was put over until Oct. 19.

The sexting case sent shock waves through the town and nearby communities that dot the South Shore of the province.

"It made me feel terrible for the girls and it's a terrible thing to happen," says Miranda Dagley, 14, of Lunenburg. "It could happen to anyone in any situation."

Madison Greek, also 14, says she can see how it all starts. Many teenage girls feel the need to fit in.

"I think that this happens quite a lot in relationships, when two people are talking and flirting with each other and maybe one person is pressuring someone into sending those pictures or texts," she said.

Canadian studies say kids as young as nine have sent explicit images of themselves. And half of older high school students say they've sent or received an intimate image.


Adolescent brains

"I think this is all about adolescent behaviour in the brain," says Signy Arnason, associate executive director of the Canadian Centre for Child Protection in Winnipeg.

The national charity, funded by the federal government and corporate donors, works closely with child-exploitation units of police forces across the country to stop child victimization.

  'It happens so easily' 0:19

"They live in the here and now. They're thinking about what they're doing in the moment and sharing that and no, I don't think enough of them are sitting back contemplating, 'If I share this, oh what if we break up? If I share this, I have lost complete control of what ends up happening with it,'" Arnason adds.

What sometimes happens is criminal. In the last five years, dozens of teens have been arrested for sharing images without consent. And their victims are often left devastated, Arnason says.

The suicides of Canadian teens Rehtaeh Parsons and Amanda Todd, who were assaulted and exploited online, are examples of how extreme the outcomes can be. A sense of desperation is not uncommon, Arnason says.


Removing images

"We've had about a dozen kids call in and say, 'If this doesn't stop, I'm contemplating ending my life.' So we know it's a very serious issue," she says

Arnason created NeedHelpNow.ca, which guides teenagers on the most important problem of getting online service providers to remove images.

The site has averaged 6,000 unique views a month since it was launched three years ago. 

"When kids come in to us, what they want is, No. 1, they don't want their parents involved and they don't want the police involved. They want the content to come down. … 'I'm underage, I'm in the photo, I didn't consent to its posting.'"

    Complete report 14:16

Nova Scotia classes 

In most cases, service providers move quickly to remove offending images, Arnason says. Sometimes police are called in, especially if the sharing involves extortion or threats.

But she says the focus should be on more education and on the fact that all sexting crimes are about lack of consent.

"The problem was we armed these kids with incredibly powerful devices … it's almost a recipe for disaster. So we're trying to play catch-up in and around how do we begin to manage and teach kids, especially when they start to enter into intimate relationships.