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3:15 PM prayer in brief:
Pray for God to stop 1 child from being molested today.
Pray for God to stop 1 child molestation happening now.
Pray for God to rescue 1 child from sexual slavery.
Pray for God to save 1 girl from genital circumcision.
Pray for God to stop 1 girl from becoming a child-bride.
If you have the faith pray for 100 children rather than one.
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Tuesday, 10 January 2017

Systematic Child Abuse Claims Published in Scotland

From BBC Scotland

Most of the allegations of abuse date back several decades

Dozens of accounts of systematic abuse in Scottish schools, residential homes and hospitals have been published.

The allegations released by the National Confidential Forum include child sex abuse, violence and bullying.

Many of the 59 testimonies describe a "veil of secrecy" within institutions, with victims and witnesses scared to speak out.

The majority of those who described their childhood experiences are now aged in their 50s.

However, some were in care as recently as five years ago, while others were sharing experiences from 80 years ago.


Troubled backgrounds

The National Confidential Forum, which was set up by the Scottish government in 2014, said it has passed on 38 allegations of abuse to the police.

The forum said most of the abused children came from troubled backgrounds, with many describing being taken into care after physical and sexual abuse within their own family, often accompanied by parental alcoholism, rejection, or neglect.

Once they were in care, the victims described the "distress, fear and confusion" they felt, with many not knowing how long they would be staying in an institution, why they were there, or whether or not parents wanted to maintain contact.

While not all of the 78 people spoken to by the forum suffered abuse, several described how physical, sexual and emotional abuse happened on a regular basis.

For some, abuse was part of a regime of punishment and control that was at the core of the institution in which they lived.

The forum said it had heard about individual abusers carrying out systematic and hidden abuse, as well as accounts of whole staff teams abusing or colluding with the abuse.


'Waterboarding'

One victim described the institution he was sent to as being like a "systematic torture chamber", with "systematic abuse a way of life all the time, morning and night".

Another said: "She'd fill a bath with cold water and throw you in it, with the towel wrapped around your head, which I think is called waterboarding. And then pour buckets of water over your head."

And a third recalled: "They took me into the night duty room and wanted me to do things. They gave me cigarettes to keep it quiet."

Among the allegations contained in its report were accounts of routine forms of punishment such as beating, force-feeding or withholding food or sleep - sometimes apparently being delivered for the enjoyment of the abuser.

Bedwetting was also dealt with severely, with children being forced to sit in a cold bath as punishment, beaten by staff with wet towels, having their head wrapped in a towel and held under running water, and in some cases having to parade around naked with their soiled sheets.

Sexual abuse was talked about by several people and often linked to specific members of staff within institutions.

A veil of secrecy was described in which other children were similarly victimised, witnessed or knew what was happening, but did not speak up.

The forum's report said: "We heard that sometimes the only available love and affection were for the purposes of grooming children for sexual abuse.

"In abusive institutions, people described accepting affection from an adult making them vulnerable to being sexually abused.

"Those who rejected affection for fear of the consequences described missing out on any chance of love and nurturing."


Sense of shame

It also said the child victims were often either too scared to speak out, or the abuse regime represented normality for them, with the children not knowing that adults should not be allowed to behave in abusive ways.

When children did report the abuse, they generally did not remember any action being taken - although at least one person recalled the abuser being removed.

Other responses included the abused child being punished or moved to another institution, which added to the child's self-blame and sense of shame.

Many people also said that adults' views and accounts were always believed over children's, and that this reflected a perception of children in care as "deviant".

After the children left care, generally between the age of 14 and 16, they were often completely unprepared for adult life, lacking in social skills and with nobody to turn to for help and support.

Homelessness continued to be a risk for many well into adulthood, leading to loss of precious belongings, substance misuse and unemployment.

Years of exposure to violence and hardship also increased the risk of getting involved in crime - with some people giving their testimony to the forum from prison.

The National Confidential Forum was set up to allow people who spent time in institutional care as children to come forward and share their experiences, whatever they were.

All hearings, where people tell of their experiences, are "confidential and non-judgmental and aim to contribute positively toward the health and well-being of those who take part".

Separately, the Scottish government has set up an independent inquiry into the abuse of children in care.

Sunday, 12 April 2015

Troubled Teen Accuses Teacher of Horrendous Acts Straight from L&O SVU

Accusations straight from 
Law & Order: Special Victims Unit scripts

The allegations a female student made against her teacher — rape, torture, waterboarding — could have been pulled straight from the scripts of TV's Law & Order: Special Victims Unit.

And, as it turned out, a B.C. arbitrator concluded they were. 

Nanaimo, Vancouver Island, British Columbia, Canada
"Should the student be believed, the teacher is one of the most heinous sexual monsters of our time," wrote arbitrator Joan McEwen in 2014, regarding accusations raised two years earlier by a Nanaimo-area girl against a teacher. Neither was named in the report.

"Should the teacher be believed, the student is a very troubled person."

Now the teacher, Donald Barber, has identified himself in a B.C. Supreme Court lawsuit which cites McEwen's ruling.

Barber is suing Marli Rusen, the lawyer hired by the Nanaimo school district to investigate the teen's claims.

SVU sex claim

In his suit, Barber says he was subjected to "ridicule, hatred and contempt" as a result of a report Rusen provided the district. Rusen claimed in her report Barber had "engaged in significant sexual, physical and sexual misconduct over a number of years."

The bizarre allegations are spelled out in his lawsuit and the arbitration.

According to Barber's suit, the student accused him in 2012 of assaulting her from Grade 5 to Grade 8. The RCMP arrested him, but the Crown declined to approve charges.

Barber, who previously had a spotless disciplinary record, was fired in March 2013.

This drawing from a student's diary was
submitted to an arbitration hearing that
 found a teacher was falsely accused
of sexual assault
But last July, McEwen upheld a grievance by his union, ordering the school district to "make [him] whole." The final outcome of that matter hasn't yet been decided.

'Horrific' allegations

According to the arbitration, the student claimed the teacher stuck knives and branches in her vagina, waterboarded and electrocuted her, and nearly suffocated her through burial.

But despite the "horrific" allegations, McEwan noted in her report the student was "never once attended an emergency clinic, hospital or walk-in clinic to treat her injuries."

"Nor did her attentive parents notice a thing — not the torn clothing, the burns; neither the bleeding to the extent that blood dripped into the swimming pool, nor her midnight foray. Not the filth from being buried or being soaked wet from waterboarding. Nothing. How likely is it that she could suffer the indignities she says she did and then go home for dinner and homework?"

Diary doubted

According to the arbitration, the girl produced a diary six weeks after police told her, in October 2012, they were dropping the case against Barber because of a "lack of hard evidence."

The diary included numerous entries along with a sketch of a badge the student claimed was worn by a police officer who allegedly raped her at the teacher's house.

SVU sex claim

But the president of the teachers' union local testified at the arbitration hearing that a search of the internet revealed all the scenarios the student described came from episodes of the long-running TV drama Law & Order: Special Victims Unit.

The description of the badge also matched one worn by a Dallas police officer in the show.

"It appears that the internet and media provided the student with everything she needed to construct a case that resulted in two years of unimaginable hardship to the teacher," McEwen concluded.

"The similarities between the plot-lines of her favourite shows and reading materials, and her allegations, are numerous and profound."

This picture of a badge drawn by a
student was submitted to an arbitration
 hearing which concluded a teacher
 was falsely accused of sexual assault.
In his civil suit, Barber says he is seeking damages over the claims made in Rusen's report — claims he says were defamatory and "maliciously published ... knowing that they were false or with careless disregard as to whether they were true or not."

Rusen's office said she could not comment on the lawsuit.

According to her website, Rusen has "years of extensive experience as a labour, employment and human rights lawyer to her current work as a third-party educator and problem-solver."

The site says Rusen is "routinely retained by many private and public sector employers to investigate allegations of significant human rights, harassment and disciplinary violations."

None of Barber's allegations have been proven in court.