Sudan is 'largest humanitarian catastrophe in history' > Sorry, David, but NO! There's something much worse!

 

The Real Worst Atrocity the World has Ever Seen

As much respect as I have for David Miliband, and as horrified as I am at the madness that has been going on in Sudan for decades, it is not the worst atrocity the world has ever seen. That accolade belongs only to child sexual abuse.

Caution: Graphic word pictures follows.

More children have been traumatically sexually abused in this century, which is just one quarter over, than there were casualties in all the wars (dead and wounded), and all the genocides of the entire 20th century. We are talking hundreds of millions of children raped, sexually assaulted, sexually exploited, sexually enslaved, trafficked, sold into marriage, slavery, prostitution, female genital mutilation, gender transitioning, sexual extortion, and being murdered by family members for a bizarre notion of honor.

Child brides
Statistics show that 80% of those children are sexually assaulted more than once. Millions of children sell themselves on the streets of poor countries just to stay alive or to feed their sick parents and little siblings. Children, especially little girls, are heroic like that. These kids are raped several times every day. Some kids are trafficked many times a day by a pimp. One Mexican girl counted being raped over a ten-year period more than 43,000 times.

In the space of 24 or 25 years, child sexual abuse events number in the billions. There are only about 2.5 billion children in the world, about 1.25 billion girls under 18. The number of sexual assaults on girls in 24 or 25 years is, at least, in the several billions, and possibly in the tens of billions.

The consequences of sexual abuse on a child are almost always devastating and often life-long. They affect so many areas of life that it is very rare for a survivor to be able to come anywhere close to their potential as an adult. More often than not they suddenly struggle to learn, they really struggle with interpersonal relationships, they have serious trust issues, they often have drug or alcohol dependencies, some become sexually promiscuous, and many become reckless, self-harming, with suicidal ideations.

In the best societies in the world, you can expect one in four or five girls to be sexually assaulted before they turn 18. In some of the most densely populated societies, one in three would be an improvement. 

Jan Huygen van Linschoten was a Dutch spy, merchant, traveller, and writer. He travelled extensively along the East Indies regions under Portuguese influence and served as the archbishop's secretary in Goa between 1583 and 1588.

Linschoten describes the Indians as “the most leacherous and unchaste nation in all the orient, so that there are verie few women children (girls) among them of seven or eight yeares old, that have their maiden-heades.” (i.e. virginity).

There is little reason to believe that attitudes toward little girls have improved in India, or, for that matter, anywhere on the Indian sub-continent, in the past 450 years.

Some NGOs believe that planeloads of child sex tourists land in Africa and South Asia every day. Men and women who hire children to stay with them during their holiday for sexual purposes. The mother or father of the children will get paid money they could never otherwise make. The rapists' conscience, if they have one, is relieved by the belief that they are helping the family survive.

Christian writer, Ann Voscamp, visited Africa a few years ago and found that children as young as 4 years old were being sold by their parents to pimps, sometimes disguised, sometimes not. These kids are worth a small fortune being pimped as child virgins. After each rape of the child, they are sewn back together to resemble a virgin and pimped out again to some pervert happy to pay a premium for a virgin no matter how young.

There is a special place in Hell for people like these, a place where, ‘Their worm does not die, And the fire is not quenched.’ - Mark 9:44-48.

Most decent people don't have to worry about ending up in that special place, however, we all have to stand before Jesus Christ and give an accounting of our lives. In that accounting, He may ask us what we did to save billions of children from the horror of child sexual abuse. Remember, Jesus probably sees child sex abuse as a violation of the sacred, the destruction of innocence. He will surely expect His people to do something other than hide their heads in the sand and pretend it is not happening.

One of the many unspeakable atrocities associated with child sexual abuse is the absolute unwillingness of people, especially Christians, to talk about it, think about it, or pray about it. It's difficult to reconcile Christian Love with ignoring the suffering of millions of children. It's not just children and their families who suffer, but God suffers with each child. Charles Price once said something like, "If the state of the world does not bring you to tears, you have not begun to know the heart of God!" "Love God, Love your neighbor." In the 21st century, everyone is your neighbor.

I believe God restricts Himself from acting in many cases unless His people pray. God's people have to "outwill" the will of evil people before He is willing to override their free will. Whether that is accurate or not, one thing is for sure, God expects us to do something against this incredulous horror. 

Will you decide to pray once a day for God to rescue children from this nightmare? 

Save A Child by 3:15 PM

"Is prayer your steering wheel or your spare tire?" Corrie Ten Boom.

Gary Wm Myers

Northwoods Ministries

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The Scale of Historical Child Sex Abuse in the UK is a Catastrophe. We Need Catharsis

And not just in the UK, but in Canada and the USA as well

Beatrix Campbell, Guardian

The scope of the inquiry into sexual crimes against children

must not be narrowed. Until we address the horrors of the past,

there can be no moving on

 ‘Lowell Goddard said in a memo to MPs that there was an inherent problem in the sheer scale and size of the inquiry.’ Photograph: Jack Taylor/AFP/Getty Images

Lowell Goddard has told us what we know – that sexual crimes against children are too big, too tolerated and altogether too much. Goddard, the New Zealand judge who resigned from the inquiry into historical child abuse last month, said in a memo to MPs that there was “an inherent problem in the sheer scale and size of the inquiry”.

None of this is a surprise for me or anyone who has been reading this blog for long. It is, however, very disappointing, to the point of maddening, that the US and Canada have completely ignored this tragic situation as though it were confined to the UK and Australia. We have our heads buried in the sand and our national media outlets are doing nothing to change that. It is to our great shame that we are letting another generation of North American children suffer the devastating consequences of child sex abuse, and the nightmare of knowing that little or nothing will ever be done about it.

It was set up in 2014 after a tsunami of scandal: the deaths of prolific but protected abusers, BBC DJ Jimmy Savile and Liberal politician Cyril Smith, and longstanding suspicions about other Westminster politicians. Speculation about organised networks of men sexually exploiting children amplified the clamour to do something. The inquiry announced 13 initial investigations.

Goddard is the third chair to step down, after the previous two appointees resigned. Her memo, drawing attention to the unmanageable scale of the problem, has encouraged cynicism and scepticism, but scale should be no deterrent. Nor should the shame that suffocates survivors of sexual assault.

Victims and survivors don’t expect and don’t get justice. The great American specialist in crimes of sexual domination, Judith Lewis Herman, warns that the perpetrator’s goal is to maintain domination by terrorising and shaming. It is this “dishonouring” of victims, she argues, that makes sexual abuse “so impervious to the formal remedies of the law”.

It is about 'dishonouring' the victims, but I don't believe the motivation for that is to maintain domination and shaming. I believe that the domination and shaming are a means to accomplish the real motivation and that is to destroy innocence. It is literally the evil nature of pedophiles to destroy that which is good.

 If child abuse were a disease, we’d see urgent action.

Our culture must change

Sue Berelowitz

What Goddard and her inquiry have not been able to do, we as a society haven’t been able to do either: sexual crimes against children are ubiquitous and abusers act with virtual impunity.

Sexual abuse of children is one of the great issues of our time. (No, it's the greatest issue of our time). For decades it loitered on the doorsteps of institutions, with nowhere to go. Theresa May’s efforts as home secretary to launch the inquiry in 2014 revealed a rush to judgment and a faith that the great and the good – our own or somebody else’s – could get hold of this and control it.

They can’t. Unlike the Iraq war inquiry, or the Hillsborough inquiry, this is not about one time and place, but about everywhere: all bodies with any responsibility for children – from police to schools, churches, the justice system, the NHS, private schools and public charities – are implicated. Some have been named. I’m currently updating my book Unofficial Secrets, on the Cleveland child abuse crisis 30 years ago. It was a controversy about medical evidence of abuse and how to respond to it.


We need this inquiry to be brave

An inquiry chaired by Elizabeth Butler-Sloss – the same judge appointed in 2014 to lead the new inquiry, before she resigned under pressure over family links – was the defining moment in our era of child-abuse politics: it was a model of not-knowing, of not answering the questions on everyone’s lips. Although the Cleveland inquiry did not doubt the medical signs that were suggestive of sexual abuse, its report neither asked nor answered the question: were the children abused? And it thus created the context in which thousands of childhoods would be ruined. The government squandered a generation of professionals. And it denied justice – or if not justice, at least honour – to the survivors.

There are millions of us – survivors and professionals and their advocates – waiting, waiting, waiting for recognition and respect and the opportunity to participate in a cultural revolution. Goddard has suggested there should be a complete review of the inquiry she has quit, “with a view to remodelling it and recalibrating its emphasis more towards current events and thus focusing major attention on the present and future protection of children”. But to abandon the excavation of the past because it is too big and too hard – as Goddard seems to suggest – is to demand that we commit collective amnesia. It would mean “giving up on a better past” – in Herman’s phrase – for the millions who will suffer in the future.

The inquiry needs to be brave, to innovate. South Africa’s Truth and Reconciliation Commission could be a useful model. It had a target, the old apartheid state, and a mission: to name the guilty men and validate their victims and cement a new consensus. Yet that commission was set up by a post-apartheid government, whereas we are not a post-sexual abuse society. And that commission’s brief – to address individual victims of violence and perpetrators – did not extend to the millions subjected to “social suffering” caused by apartheid.

The child abuse inquiry’s brief is not just to consider abuse in institutional contexts, but the experiences of anyone “failed by an institution”. Nevertheless, a historical inquiry into institutions ignores the place where most sexual abuse takes place – the family. The Office of the Children’s Commissioner (OCC) in England calculates that 1.3 million children will experience serious sexual abuse in their families by the time they reach 18. In the past year the OCC has reportedly lost half its staff. That’s how committed the government is to abused children.

Her Majesty’s Inspectorate of Constabulary expresses its worries, in report after report, that despite law reform and greater awareness raised by successive scandals, the police response to sexual crime is so routinely poor that it risks failing another generation of children.

We need this inquiry to be brave. When it reviews itself, as it will, it must insist on what it needs – more specialist and trained staff and more support for those staff, who may be shocked by their discoveries. It needs huge outreach – who in Gateshead, or Godalming knows that this might be a forum for them? And it needs serious investigative powers and resources.

Why not envisage an inquiry that prefigures permanent vigilance, that morphs into an inspectorate that reports regularly, is respected by those who need it and feared by its enemies; whose brief is to support collective self-discovery so that we are not doomed to be who we were.

We need this inquiry to do something unprecedented: to help transform a catastrophe into a catharsis.