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3:15 PM prayer in brief:
Pray for God to stop 1 child from being molested today.
Pray for God to stop 1 child molestation happening now.
Pray for God to rescue 1 child from sexual slavery.
Pray for God to save 1 girl from genital circumcision.
Pray for God to stop 1 girl from becoming a child-bride.
If you have the faith pray for 100 children rather than one.
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Wednesday, 11 December 2024

Wolves Among the Catholic Sheep > Cistercian Monk's horrific child sex abuse on Welsh island; UK priest defrocked for CSA

 

Horrific sexual abuse of children at Caldey Abbey

disclosed in review


Some victims described being sexually abused several times a day

in the summer months



Children were repeatedly abused by a monk belonging to the Cistercian community at Caldey Abbey, south Wales over many years, a review has disclosed.

The Cistercians are a Roman Catholic order of monks and nuns that originated in 1098 in Burgundy, France

The review by consultant social worker Jan Pickles, and commissioned by the abbey, documents horrific abuse taking place from the late 1960s to 1992 of children, some living on the island and some visiting with their families. Many complained at the time about what had happened but were disbelieved, disregarded or the abuse was covered up.



Fr Thaddeus Kotik, born in Poland and who obtained British citizenship in 1959, died in 1992 without being called to account for any of his crimes.

“Victim testimonies from the 1970’s suggest TK to have been a serial and prolific abuser of children, often in ‘plain sight’ of others,” the report says. “The victims describe being taken by him to beaches, woods, gardens, an old container or building which had fallen into disrepair and waiting for them leaving school. Some describe being sexually abused several times a day in the summer months. 

A visitor to the Island described seeing TK making a ‘bee line’ for them as they arrived from the mainland and carrying a five year old girl around the island and being challenged by islanders to put the child down – this Reviewer has seen photographs of TK inappropriately holding the child concerned. TK’s interest in children was not hidden from view, and it appears to have been tolerated by adults on the Island.”

A victim told his parish priest in the confessional of his abuse at TK’s hands. Fr Higham was the parish priest at his local church from 1972 until 2004, passing away a year later in 2005, the review says. “001 states Fr Higham warned him very forcefully that he should not repeat what he said to anyone and that if he were to tell anyone of his abuse that ‘he would suffer terrible punishment and be sent to Hell’,” the review reports.

Another victim told her aunt what was happening and the monk accused the aunt of being “evil” for trying to keep the child away from him.

The review recommends that the public-facing business of tourist attraction and the abbey be separated as legal entities with separate governance and management structures. To protect all parties, contact between the monastic community and the visiting public must be formalised and all informal contact should cease. “Should a member of the public seek pastoral or religious advice or require support they should be referred to their parish priest,” the review says.

Fr Jan Rossey, Abbot of Caldey Abbey, said: “It is with deep sorrow and regret that I have read in the review of the great suffering of children who were abused by Father Thaddeus Kotik and the closed culture of secrecy and cover-up which kept this hidden.

“It is clear opportunities were missed to stop the abuse of children. It is particularly heartbreaking to hear children spoke up to adults and no action was taken.

“Children and their families were failed when they should have been supported and listened to. The abuses should have been reported to the statutory authorities.

“On behalf of the monastic community, I sincerely apologise to all those who have been hurt and have suffered because of the abuse of Thaddeus Kotik and past failures in not protecting children and their families. It is particularly odious when abuse is committed and hidden by people who are in positions of trust because of their monastic or priestly vocation.”

He added: “Since becoming the new Abbot on Caldey Island in 2023 I have been determined to create a culture of openness and transparency. I want to take ownership and responsibility for past failings. I want to ensure we learn lessons from the mistakes in the past and create a safer environment for everyone.

“It is for these reasons that I commissioned an independent review into historical claims of child abuse on the island. The first step to healing is listening. It is important that those who may have been harmed in any way have a voice and are heard.”

Caldey Is, Wales


Pope removes clerical status of convicted priest



A Catholic priest who was convicted of child sexual abuse has been stripped of his clerical status.

Dennis Finbow, of Martlesham, near Ipswich, Suffolk, was jailed in March 2023 for six and a half years for abusing a young girl in the 1980s while he worked in Dogsthorpe, Peterborough.

Following the conviction, Pope Francis has removed Finbow's clerical status and rights as a Catholic priest.

Andrew Lord, a solicitor from Leigh Day who represents survivors of abuse, said: "While no action can fully erase the harm Finbow caused, we are encouraged that the Catholic Church is taking measures to hold him accountable."

Prioritise safeguarding

Finbow, who had also served in St Neots, Cambridgeshire, had retired and not been in active ministry since 2001.

After a trial at Huntingdon Crown Court in January 2023, he was told he would be on the sex offenders' register for life.

Bishop Peter Collins, from the Diocese of East Anglia, confirmed Finbow had his clerical status and rights as a Catholic priest removed by Pope Francis after the conviction.

He said: "As I promised when Dennis Finbow was convicted and jailed last March, the Diocese has followed the process of canon law outlined in our policies and procedures and can announce that he has now been laicised.

"We wish to reiterate our willingness to listen and support anyone affected by abuse and all victims of child sexual abuse are in my prayers.

"We would encourage any victim of child sexual abuse perpetrated within the Catholic Church context to make contact either directly through our Safeguarding Office or with Safe Spaces, our victim support service."

Mr Lord, said: "We welcome the Diocese of East Anglia's decision to remove Dennis Finbow's clerical status following his conviction for the horrific abuse of a vulnerable child."

"It is crucial that institutions support survivors of abuse and prioritise safeguarding children."


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